The secrets of waxing
Brailian waxing is something you can start studying but never finish. It is a study that goes on and on, and with experience becoming deeper and deeper, intensifying. Massage is the most delicate art, and not just a question of skill. More than anything, it is a question of love.
First, learn the technique … and then forget it. From now on you will only feel, and move with the feeling. When you learn deeply, 90% of the work is done by love, and only 10% by technique, the touch itself, a loving touch, which relaxes the body.
If you love and feel compassion for the other, and feel the ultimate value in it, if you are treating it from an energy of supreme value, and not as if it is the need to repair or arrange a machine, you begin to approach perfection. If you are grateful that your patient or patient trusts you and allows you to play with their energy, then your massage would be like playing in some mysterious organ. The entire body of the patient becomes a keyboard, and you can feel that harmony is forming inside his body. By doing so you will not only help the patient but also yourself.
In our real world, love is disappearing, and good massage can be a certain compensation for it. Once upon a time, the very touch of lovers was enough. Mother touched the child, played with his body, and it served as a massage. The husband played with his wife’s body and it was a massage. That was enough, and even more. It was a kind of deep reassurance and part of love.
This has disappeared from the world. Hence we have forgotten where to touch, how and how deep to touch. This is the duration for a brazilian wax.
The language of touch is one of the most forgotten languages. We have become almost hesitant, because the very word has been corrupted by people who call themselves “clergy.” They gave inappropriate sexual meaning to the word, unjustly. And as the word became more sexual, people became more frightened. Everyone is careful not to touch them without their consent, heaven forbid.
Today, Western countries have reached the second extreme. Touch and massage became sexual. The term massage is perceived as a cover and disguise for sexuality, not necessarily for natural and healthy sexuality, but for all matters related to the trade in sex services. In fact, neither touch nor massage are sexual; they are a function of love. When love descends from its supremacy it becomes sex, and then it becomes ugly.
Please, therefore, have a prayer. When you touch a person’s body, you have a prayer – as if the Creator himself were there, and you are only a tool in his hands. Will flow with total energy. When you see the body flowing and the energy creates a new pattern of harmony, you will feel pleasure that you have not felt before. You will sink into a kind of deep meditation yourself.
When you massage, just chew. Do not think about other things, since these are unnecessary distractions. Be in your fingers and your hands as if all your being, your whole soul is there. Do not let the massage be just a touch of the body. Your whole soul enters the body of the other, penetrates it, calms the deepest compounds.
Turn the massage into a game. Do it as a work, turn it into a game, accept it as a game. They laughed … and let you laugh as well. So you can help many, and most importantly, effortlessly. Get out there, the journey pays off!